if u truly love a gurl....see her with the eyes u see ur mum....in that way...u will neva have the urge to cheat on her or use her...rather than u blaming other gurls for ur failed relationship....blame urself n start over....
2. never bitch about ur relationship probs to ur frenz
if u have a relationship prob...its better for u to confront her....dnt ask for advice from ur frenz...coz not everyone kno the right words to say at the right tym....especially wen they are drunk...
3. neva drink over a gurl
no matter wat happens between u n ur gurl...neva drink to forget her....coz that neva works....ur juz proving that ur a pathetic loser who cant make ur relationship work....i might not be a guy...but i think like one...i literally tried to drink myself to death wen i broke up with my ex...n trust me its not gonna make u any better...drinking is supposed to be fun...dont make it sound so lame...
4. never cheat on a gurl bcoz u got cheated
2 wrongs dnt make a right....im very sure u guys have heard this b4....call it revenge, pay back, gurls deserve it or wat so ever...but juz remember not all apples are rotten...u might end up hurting a fresh fruit...n tats not gonna look nice in ur resume
5. never be a pushover
if ur gurl says stop mixing with a few ppl...y do u hv to listen to her...a gurl fren is supposed to be there for u...n help u sort things up...if she says sumthing...dont blindly follow...use the brain tat u have for once...think for urself whether wat ur gf suggested is rational o not...for example stop smoking - U SHOULD...stop racing - U SHOULD...stop drinking - OCCASIONALLY DRINKING IS FINE...stop leparking with ur frenz - FUCK OFF....i repeat ur not a doll...so dont let the queen control u..
6. never over protect
over protecting is oni gonna make ur gal feel like u wanna control her life....she has her dad, mum, brothers and +++ to do that....as a bf u are supposed to be there for her...so dont be such a buzz kill...let her have her freedom...if ur so worried over her well being...go n hang out with her n her frenz....that way u can keep an eye on her n u can hv fun with her...
7. never think of marriage as jail
marriage is a different stage in ur life...if ur gonna act as if its jail..trust me ur wife is gonna make sure u get jail facilities oni.....gurls dnt kno everything about marriage....its not like they were born with a book guiding them how to make a marriage work...so cut them sum slake...pick up the responsibility as a husband...n help out too....as i told u b4....u both have to peddle together to win....
8. never flirt with another gurl
well...this is interesting coz to me...i dont mind my man flirting....coz if the gurl has 100% trust on u...no matter how u flirt, u will neva cross ur limit....and if u flirt tel her u did it...at least u might get points for being truthful...note this...if ur gf is a super sensitive type...flirting is a BIG NO NO....
9. never lie
ok so u lied about sumthing...so wat....small matter...but trust me gurls dnt take it that way....if u lied i suggest within 24 hours say ur sorry for wat u did n tel the truth....important detail...hiding sumthing is not lying but trust me the punishment will be heavier if she found out....so juz be honest
10. never check a gurl out in front of ur gf
i love checking gurls out with my bf...but the sad part is my bf does not check gurls out in front of me...thats the way a guy should be...u might juz be gazing at her...but sum gurls are not that confident...so if ur gurl is that type...u better keep ur eyes oni gazing at her...or not ur juz asking for a major drama...
11. never run away from a conversation
guys are well known for this....im not excluding my relationship...if u have a problem....there is one solution...its called COMMUNICATION....good communication can always save a relationship....and if u guys think the conversation is goin out of hands...plz hit PAUSE....go make out or sumthing...calm things down...then hit PLAY again...trust me by the end of the day...u guys would not even kno y the fight came up...n the whole thing might sound dam silly....
12. never push on sex
well i would hv to say that...there are still guys that say no to premarital sex...but majority...wan the experiences earlier....STOP THINKING WITH UR DICKS GUYS!!! if ur partner is ready then there should be no issue...the issue starts wen ur partner is not ready...im sick of hearing about failed relationships due to sex....patience gets u to places u can oni wish to be in....so juz be patience...rushing things for a gurl....NOT A GUD SIGN.....
13. never pamper ur gf too much
everything deserves a stop limit sign....dont over do things...wen u let a gurl kno she has u tied to her legs...its not gonna be a gud ending....no matter wat happens...dnt show ur gal that she has u to her willingness....too much ego is never healthy for a relationship...but sumtyms u do need some....she is not gonna suck ur balls juz coz u suck up to her...
14. never cry
i kno guys who are rock hard...they dnt even kno the meaning of tears...and i oso kno guys who are more sensitive than gurls...no matter wat type u are...there will be a day that u will hv to break into tears...plz get a room....i beg u...seeing a guy cry is an awful sight...i personally cant take it....thou i have never seen a man crying...if ur about to cry remember this....my mum used to tel my little brothers....BIG BOYS DNT CRY....so dont...
15. never hit a gurl
i kno gurls who hit their bfs....well i love biting mine...but thats out of love...but to guys who have the tendency of hitting a gurl....brothers u guys need serious help....evertym ur gal does sumthing to pist u off....juz say this...gal plz leave me alone for a few minutes...or give her a save word...so that she knows she pist u off....buy sumtym away from her....go whack a tree or a rubbish bin...then onces ur all done being manly to the tree or the rubish bin...talk n settle wat had happened
16. never keep porn in ur laptop
its all ready bad enough that u watch them...n its already bad enough that she knows u watch...but downloading them n keeping...its juz different level of being a terrible bf...no ordinary gurl can compete with a porn star...ur juz creating unwanted friction...this automatically leads to NO SEX....dnt blame her...u asked for it...
17. never use vulgar words on ur gf
if u think hitting sumone is painful....words can literally kill someone....if ur fighting...have a clean fight...vulgar words might look fancy in movies...but they aint appropriate in real life....in my opinion the worst word u can use on ur gf is 'THEVEDIAH'...if ur the type who use this word...a simple advice plz do not get in a relationship..u dnt deserve a gurl...u aint a man juz coz u kno how to us all the bad words in the world...ur a man if u make kno how to make ur relationship work...
so comprehensively...i would like to say everything mentioned about....are true in certain relationship and may be false too...it depends on wat type of gurl u got urself hooked on....so a simple advice get to kno type is ur gf...that way...u will kno the right pressure point to push...n wahlah u might juz have ur future wife....
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